7/41 29. Ups and Downs One of my father’s distant cousins was my age. He was the son of my father’s uncle, the leader of the security force when father visited home deserting his company during Korean War. In Korea, once a couple have a baby, they are called by kid’s name. They are called by the name of the first child. People called my parents by “Nam Hee’s father, Nam Hee’s mother.” The above uncle called my parents.. 2021. 1. 15.